Jeff was kind enough to leave a comment last week, and in passing, he reminded me of something I was going to post on.
Namely, he says this: "Which would be more or less a rejection of my work as an
integrally-informed coach/consultant. Which would be more or less a
rejection of my purpose. And me.)"
I completely relate to this, and I wonder who else does so?
My observation is that sensitive, intelligent guys, if they "grok" Ken Wilber - there's a pretty natural tendency to say "My life purpose is to be THAT type of coach/counselor, and help people get their lives together!"
Of course, maybe I am projecting.
But this is a common thing in literature, inspirational literature ABOUT the WORLD and IDEALS, that also motivates -
People who read Ayn Rand's Fountainhead, everyone starts to see themselves as:
"The hero, Howard Roark, is Rand's ideal, a noble soul par excellence,
an architect who is firmly and serenely devoted to his own ideals and
believes that no man should copy the style of another in any field,
especially architecture. All the other characters in the novel demand
that he renounce his values, but Roark maintains his integrity. Unlike
traditional heroes who launch into long and passionate monologues about
their integrity and the unfairness of the world; Roark, in contrast,
does it with a disdainful, almost contemptuous taciturnity and
laconicism."
Same thing with Herman Hesse - the idealist Siddartha becomes a role model of emulation.
Talking to a lot of people about Wilber - I think there could be a lot of the same dynamic going on. The idealized version of wanting to help, of thinking of integral as the "life passion", etc.
I think it is also a TRUE inspiration - it certainly is true for me - but I also wanted to point out that there is a certain literary device being employed, that flows from Wilber's work, that all of us feel, when reading it - and that same type of literary device works the same way (but with different CONTENT) for other writers.
I don't know if this was a concious decision on Ken's part or not, but for me, it's an interesting phenomenon.
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On Integral, Counseling, and Ken Wilber, and a poll:
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on Tue 14 Feb 2006 06:00 PM PST | Profile | Permanent Link
I was talking to a friend the other day who was reading the Fountainhead and talking about how even though there is not so much to the story it made him feel like he really wished he was that person. So, I can see how Wilber has that same effect. He makes you wish you were the person figuring out all this stuff.
At the same time, I was thinking recently that now matter how much I love Wilber's content I sometimes wish he had a touch more writerly finese. Maybe it doesn't really fit as what he seems to be primarily doing is making a large amount of information digestable. But I was thinking, how might Integral sound if described by someone like Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Or any other writer with a gift for language. Seems you're on a role lately. All kinds of fascinating posts. Re: On Integral, Counseling, and Ken Wilber, and a poll:
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WH
on Tue 14 Feb 2006 06:33 PM PST | Profile | Permanent Link
I wanted to be like Ken for a while--wanted to read everything he read, and so on. Still think I might shave my head one of these days--he's proof it can work on a middle-aged white guy.
When I was younger, I wanted to be like Rimbaud--tried to for a while, too. But I found it hard to stay in college with that many chemicals in my body. I think it's a natural inclination to want to emulate or model ourselves after people we respect. It's extremely common in teenagers. When I teach poetry workshops, I actually suggest that students get lost inside the poetry of their favorite writer--learn the rhythms, the tone, the syntax, the language, the subjects--and try to write that way for a while. It's a great teaching tool as long as they know that they have to find their own voice at some point. Same with us. We read all of Wilber's books, listen to him at Integral Naked, and so on. But sooner or later, he is just another human being--a really smart one, but still a flawed human being. Maybe that was an answer to a different question than you were asking. :) Best, Bill Trackbacks
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