I saw this post at Integral Options today, about money, sex, power, and believing you are free of them.
I pretty much agree with what is being said, in the sense of having enough money to "mostly not worry about money".
Now, there are many ways to "achieve" this. Being "disciplined" about money, is one of the best ways. Always put away at least 10% of your income. Don't spend frivolously.
I know people who make 100 K per year, who are still living paycheck to paycheck. Not because they are horrible overspenders, but because they wanted a decent place in Marin or San Francisco! (Note - another rule - don't buy property in San Francisco!)
This is a very useful motivation in terms of staving off survival anxiety, in terms of learning discipline in "inputs" and "outputs". Jobs themselves are very useful in terms of growing and developing skills.
But is this still a matter of being bound, or simply a matter of common sense, this desire for "freedom from" money?
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When Is the Desire for "Freedom From" Another Type of Being Bound?
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Re: When Is the Desire for "Freedom From" Another Type of Being Bound?
You pose a good question. In the case of the people making 100K a year, there seems to be a disconnect between need and desire.
In my case, I live simply. I try to leave a small footprint on the planet in terms of usage. Aside from a serious book addiction, I am not a consumer. Even then, I usually buy used books. When I say I would like to not have to worry about money, it comes from a poverty mentality engendered by years of poverty, especially as a kid. I realize there is a certain amount of attachment to safety in that need. I am not poor. I make enough to pay my bills, travel a little bit, and do the occasional retreat or workshop. When I need more money or want to build my savings, I work more. Still, I would like to have enough (whatever "enough" might be) that I'd not have to think about working more if I want to buy something expensive, or not need to work a few more hours a week to get a crown on a bad tooth. I don't know what enough is, but the need for it feels to me to be a kind of attachment. It feels like grasping at something I don't have. I wouldn't call it greed, but I also wouldn't say I am free from desire for "more." I don't know if that addresses your question or not. Peace, Bill Trackbacks
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