Ryan asks - nay, demands! - share your projections!
I used to be much bigger about sharing openly, in my 20's. There is both a certain beauty, and a certain innocence, in sharing "what is happening in me now". However, I also discovered that sharing can sometimes be - simply embarrasing. TMI is a phrase that was coined for a reason.
Now, I like to be embarrasing sometimes - this is also true.
For now, I'll go the easy way - share a projection I have, that gets across a "point I'd like to make", but also includes a shadow element, because in this case - DEFINITELY I have 9 fingers pointing back at me, for every 1 figure pointed at that other guy.
I think there is a disease - in the blogosphere, and, in the world - called the "I Am Right" disease.
People who are RIGHT - engage in propaganda and fallacious arguments, rather than dialogue - just because they are RIGHT.
People who are RIGHT, brook no argument, justify their position constantly, and - around being called wrong - react in all types of strange manners.
People who are RIGHT - especially combined with POWER - commit some of the worst crimes on this earth.
However - sometimes someone IS right. If I say it's DAY and you say it's NIGHT - guess what? There is a right answer and a wrong answer here. Look outside. (Yes, yes, the wise guy there in the back in Ireland is saying "it's night over here! nya nya nya!" - but that is beside the point.)
And especially for those on the cutting edge of something, they may be right, when other are wrong - for awhile. (Galileo being the prime example.)
Integral "solves" this problem by saying "every perspective is valid - but my perspective is MORE INCLUSIVE than yours".
But guess what? We are human. Especially here in the "read what I have to write!" blogosphere, we can often be wrong, our perspective can often be off. And what we are writing about - is NOT whether gravity exists, or whether it is day or night outside, or whether 2 plus 2 equals 4. As such - the "truth" is not so clearcut all the time.
I prefer to think of good analysis and commentary as using inquiry, intelligence, and analysis, combined with perseverance, openness, and honesty - and constantly re-discovering the "truth" as more data and perspectives are considered.
But that attitude gets lost in pissing matches of "I am Right"ness.
So here is my request. I would like everyone who both reads this blog and who has a blog - to point out one time (at least) where they were in obvious disagreement in the blogosphere - where YOU were wrong - and the OTHER person was right.
So - in THIS particular game - the more "moral" and upstanding person is - refreshingly honest about saying - "Dude, I totally whiffed on that post! Sometimes I'm an IDIOT!!".
Who's with me!!
Now, one would think - I would LEAD the way - and I will!
The other day, I posted that Cox Communications was blocking Craigslist.
Well, I totally totally whiffed on that post. If you read a comment to the post, apparently, it was the security software provided by Authentium, that had a glitch in the software driver.
Sorry! Sometimes I'm an idiot!!
Anyone else?
Also - I'll provide more, since of course I am less identified with the content of that post - this blog isn't called "Security Software". But I'll need to time to find out when I've been wrong [editor - yeah, he needs time - since I guess he thinks it doesn't happen very much...].
Of course, feel free to help me out with that!!
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The Sickness of Being Right - With a capital R
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Re: The Sickness of Being Right - With a capital R
My blog activity started two days ago, too soon to know. I promise I'll tell you as soon as it happens, (and won't be so long)... Sometimes I'm an idiot, too.
:) Re: The Sickness of Being Right - With a capital R
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ryan
on Fri 16 Jun 2006 08:02 AM PDT | Permanent Link
Hey Ebuddha - thanks for responding to my post. looks like only a few have, which bothers me, but what can you do?
"Sickness of being right" plagues the blogosphere. Maybe it's me, but it turns me off even if I think the person is right, know what I mean? I found it so refreshing to read Gladwell's post where he admits he was wrong. That should be happening a lot more, and frankly it just doesn't. I don't think we all need to sit around in a circle and have an emotional circle jerk, just to step up to the f'n plate and be more transparent. Thanks for doing that. Trackbacks
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