There is quite a question for me, on "resting" in a particular place. 

While most of my energy is in the way "I" am living my life, this alternates with small periods of simply resting in a "oneness".

Now, there isn't much to do in that space, but, there does seem to be a focus required, where the I choose to turn its attention back to the "source".  

Paradoxically, which then decreases the relevancy of the "I".  

Then mind patterns/life challenges interfere, and then the I reasserts itself as primary. 

It's a funny cycle.