The original link is here - and please go read.  But, this is such a cool piece of music, I have to embed it in the blog.  The boy is really starting to get good with his guitar - I love this piece.



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From Bill at Integral Options, a link from Salon.

I completely agree with the criticisms.  However, I don't judge Oprah harshly for promoting the Secret, although it might end up she is simply cynically pushing product.

But I don't think she needs to do that, as she makes a recommendation, such as her book clubs, and everyone reads her suggestions.

This is pure speculation and projection - but it seems to me that HER particular story - especially her early life:

From Wikipedia:

Oprah Winfrey was born in Kosciusko, Mississippi, to a Baptist family. Her parents were unmarried teenagers. .[9][10] Her mother, Vernita Lee, was a housemaid, and her father, Vernon Winfrey, was a coal miner and later worked as a barber before becoming a city councilman. Winfrey's father was in the Armed Forces when she was born. After her birth, Winfrey's mother travelled north and Winfrey spent her first six years living in rural poverty with her Grandma Hattie Mae. Winfrey's grandmother taught her to read before the age of three and took her to the local church, where she was nicknamed "The Preacher" for her ability to recite Bible verses. When Winfrey was a child, her grandmother would take a switch and would hit her with it when she didn't do chores or if she misbehaved in any way.[11]

At age six, Winfrey moved to an inner city ghetto in Milwaukee, Wisconsin with her mother, who was less supportive and encouraging than her grandmother. Winfrey has stated that she was molested by her cousin, uncle, and a family friend, starting when she was 9.

Despite her dysfunctional home life, Winfrey skipped two of her earliest grades, became the teacher's pet, and by the time she was 13 received a scholarship to attend Nicolet High School in the suburbs, known as Glendale, Wisconsin. Although Winfrey was very popular, she couldn't afford to go out on the town as frequently as her better-off classmates. Like many teenagers at the end of the 1960s, Winfrey rebelled, ran away from home and ran the streets. When she was 14, she became pregnant, but lost the baby after birth.[12] Also at that age, her frustrated mother sent her to live with her father in Nashville, Tennessee. Vernon was strict, but encouraging and made her education a priority. Winfrey became an honors student, was voted "Most Popular Girl", joined her high school speech team, and placed second in the nation in dramatic interpretation. She won an oratory contest, which secured her a full scholarship to Tennessee State University, a historically black institution, where she studied communication. At age 18, Winfrey won the Miss Black Tennessee beauty pageant.

Winfrey's boyfriend from high school, Anthony Otey, would later recall what Winfrey was like during those early years:

    …she knew what she wanted very early in life. She said she wanted to be a movie star. She wanted to be an actress. And I praise God that she's done that. She was willing to put aside a lot of other things. Back in the seventies, drugs had started entering the schools, and that kind of thing. We were involved in integration and those fights in those years. We were actively involved in that, but she knew what she wanted to do. She worked hard at it, and when her ship started to sail, she got aboard.[13]

Oprah's early life is an incredibly inspiring story - there is no doubt.  Her determination, intelligence, and ability, always stood out.  Perhaps that is why the Secret makes sense TO HER.

In a way, she has LIVED the story of "the Secret".   But what isn't realized - by her, and by others with incredible abilities - is that there exceptions, their lives, are exceptions that inspire, based on incredible personal skills, and also includes an element of chance, being in the right place, at the right time.  The existentialists - Satre, Tillich, Frankl, even most of the self-improvement gurus - describe in detail the pychological realm of "creating out of nothing", creating and recreating the Self.   Great creative artists and skilled artisans transcend their environments, to create novelty, meaning, purpose, bringing greater revelations, order, out of the existing circumstances.

While that looks a lot like "The Secret", again, these are the EXCEPTIONS, and the EXCEPTIONAL - which clearly Oprah is.  And the rules that apply to the exceptional people, cannot be universalized to all, especially without reference to the social, biographical, and personal factors of each individual person.

The  "rules" so to speak, of the exceptional - and these can be documented, as there are similarities - are not the same for all people. Other people are more described by the environments they were brought up in, the issues those create, and the limitations of being, simply, an ordinary person.